What do Guys Worry About When it Comes to Sex?

Both guys and girls worry about things when it comes to sex but it’s very rare that a guy will admit any sex fears he has. However, a recent survey has questioned men across the UK to find out just what they worry about during sex.

One of the main things men said was that, just like girls, they worry about getting naked. Men have insecurities too – particularly when girls talk about celebrities bodies that they adore. Men feel like they have to compete with these buff famous actors and worry that the girl they’re about to sleep with will be disappointed with how they look in comparison. Whether you're a guy or girl make sure you compliment and reassure your partner to ensure they feel comfortable whilst naked which will result in better sex for both of you!

Guys also worry about birth control and whether or not to bring up the ‘have you got a condom’ question. Drawing on past experiences men said that if they brought up the subject the girl would get annoyed for them assuming sex was a given, but if they didn’t bring it up the girl would complain that they didn’t care about safe sex. To solve this issue we suggest bringing up the topic of birth control either way – perhaps start with “if we are to have sex..” so that you don’t sound too assuming!

Guys say that living up to expectations is another concern. After watching numerous porn videos and seeing guys blow girls minds in the bedroom a lot of guys say they feel they need to match up to this. What many don’t realise is that a lot of porn scenes are fake and over exaggerated. Guys said when it comes to having sex with a girl they worry if the previous guy was bigger than them and if they’ll be able to pleasure the girl successfully.

If you or your boyfriend has any of these concerns then why not try out one of our sex toys or vibrators to liven things up? Introducing something new to your sex life that you both want to try gives you a sense of unity and will make you both feel comfortable. Start having better sex and less sex concerns by looking at our sex shop products today!