Sex can be one of two things; intensely fuelled mutual passion or boring, one-way awkwardness. But which one suits you? Here are the signs that indicate your man is definitely a keeper in the bedroom (we all know they can sometimes be hard to find):
1. He kisses you first; whilst spontaneous sex is more than fun, everyone needs a bit of a warm up. If he kisses you but skips the foreplay this is okay providing kissing is enough to get you wanting sex straight away. However, if he goes straight for sex with no kissing or foreplay you can expect a bit of a rough ride.
2. He’s generous; sex has to be reciprocal. Whilst you're getting jaw ache on a regular basis its only right that this effort is reciprocated. Make sure you get your fair share of whatever it is you like. If he’s all about his pleasure then ditch him!
3. You share your fantasies; if you can openly speak about your fantasies together this is a great indicator that you're on the same sexual wavelength. If he starts bragging about past sexual fantasy conquests we’re pretty sure you're going to be in the mood for anything but sex and be left feeling intimidated. If he focuses on what he’d like to do rather than what he’s done he is one to keep! Think about introducing sex toys, playing dress up or experimenting with anal beads.
4. He’s not a ‘hug-and-roller’; once sex is finished if he stays lying next to you and doesn’t whip his boxers on and go and watch TV then he has a much more emotional connection with you (or he is just tired...) If he ‘hugs and rolls’ or gets out of bed to do something else then it’s clear he’s just after some good sex.
5. He takes precautions; before jumping into the sack with you (or at least whilst you’re starting to get it on) he checks if you're on the pill or if you've got condoms. Sexual health is so important and if he cares about it then this is a great start. Make sure you always use a condom, or if you're both clear of STIs and you're on the pill then you don’t have to. If you've just met him we recommend using a condom, he might say he’s clear of STIs but you can never be sure with someone you've just met.
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